Recently, I interviewed Sara Raymond, who invites us into the subtle, powerful world of hypnotherapy, where transformation starts beneath the surface. In this episode we discussed her autoimmune struggles coupled with anxiety and addiction has empowered Sara to learn and share how personalized, gentle hypnotherapy can open a door to deep, sustainable healing. You’ll also hear why healing too fast can backfire and why safety and self-compassion matter more than ever.. If you would prefer to listen to the interview you can access it by Clicking Here.
Dr. Eric Osansky:
I am super excited to chat with Sara Raymond. We are going to be talking about hypnotherapy. I am excited about this conversation. As I was telling Sara, I actually was searching for a hypnotherapist. I can’t say I was searching too hard, but I wanted a hypnotherapist and didn’t know who to have on the podcast. Glad to have Sara here.
Let me go ahead and go over her impressive bio here. Sara Raymond may just be the compassionate support you’ve been searching for on your healing and personal evolution journey. A hypnotherapist and trauma-informed transformational coach, Sara combines over 20 years of experience as a Pilates, yoga, and meditation teacher with a deep passion for helping people reconnect with their inner wisdom and embrace their inherent fullness.
As the co-founder of the Mindful Movement, Sara has cultivated a global community, offering free meditation and self-hypnosis practices to over 900,000 subscribers on YouTube. Known for her compassionate and authentic approach, Sara brings a wealth of personal and professional insight as a recovering overachiever and perfectionist, creating a safe space for growth and transformation.
Her new book You Are Not Broken: A Compassionate Guide to Uncovering Inner Wisdom and Transforming Your Life with Hypnotherapy provides readers with the tools to release self-doubt, reframe limiting beliefs, and create sustainable, meaningful change. Welcome, Sara.
Sara Raymond:
Thank you. I appreciate it.
Dr. Eric:
If we could dive a little bit more into your background. What led to you first of all becoming a hypnotherapist and then eventually writing your book?
Sara:
I was teaching Pilates and yoga for many years before diving into the world of hypnotherapy. I found myself on the hamster wheel of looking for more training and more credentials and more education to be confident. I wasn’t an impostor in the field. At that point, I had been teaching for at least 10 years. I had lots of experience and lots of training. Logically, I was experienced, and I was good at my job, but the limiting beliefs, the subconscious patterning, had me seeking more and more and more. I couldn’t have told you that at the time.
It had me looking for a way to feel more confident and had me looking for a way to understand myself a little bit better and some of those patterns that had me striving and looking for the perfection and the overachieving tendencies.
At that stage, it really led me to find the answers that I was looking for. This started with meditation and then led to hypnosis. I am just a teacher by nature. What I do and what I find valuable, I typically will end up teaching and sharing with others.
Dr. Eric:
If you could give a definition of hypnotherapy and maybe talk about what differentiates hypnotherapy from other types of- I don’t know if you would refer to hypnotherapy as a type of mind/body medicine like meditation or yoga. If you could define it and distinguish between those.
Sara:
I would put it in the category of mind/body healing. I do take a bit of a somatic approach to hypnotherapy because of my background with working with the body and working with the mind to inform the body. I think there is a lot of wisdom in the body that can be accessed through hypnosis and hypnotherapy.
If I could give a definition, that’s a hard one because it’s kind of broad in that we’re in a therapeutic relationship. Hypnosis is a way to bypass or set aside the logical, conscious, thinking mind, which is where we mostly live as adults. It allows you to access the inner wisdom of the subconscious, of the emotional side of your experience, which is where all of our beliefs live. They live in the subconscious and drive our actions and drive our behaviors.
In order to change a behavior and action, you have to first change the belief that is driving it. Long-winded answer to tell you that the hypnotic or therapeutic experience, it’s giving you the opportunity to access your subconscious mind, to make change.
Dr. Eric:
I assume hypnotherapy, the person has to be a willing participant. You can’t really hypnotize someone if they’re not willing to be hypnotized.
Sara:
Yes and no. Yes, in that if you want to use hypnosis, you have to want to make the change. I couldn’t send my husband to a hypnotherapist to say, “Load the dishwasher differently” because he doesn’t want to do that. People will get in touch with me and say, “I really want my husband to stop drinking. Can you help him?” The answer is no, if he doesn’t want to change, then this won’t work.
But the reason I was saying that you can be hypnotized without wanting to is that when you’re watching a show that has an emotional quality to it, essentially, that is a form of a hypnotic state. When you’re driving home from work on a very familiar route, and you get home and say, “I don’t remember making those last three turns,” you’re still aware, and you’re still safely driving your car, but you’re in a different brainwave state than a highly alert brainwave state. Essentially, there is a bit of hypnosis in there.
Dr. Eric:
That makes sense. Good point, in bringing up alcohol. You have to want to be motivated to give up alcohol. Same thing with smoking. I heard hypnosis can help with smokers, but if they don’t want to quit smoking-
Sara:
And with those in particular, it can be a little tricky because we may say we want to because that’s what we think we should do. If underneath the surface, you really don’t want to, then it still will be really challenging to use hypnosis as a tool to quit smoking or drinking in that case.
Dr. Eric:
What kind of people do you work with? Do you have some people who come to you who want to quit drinking alcohol? Is it more focused on people with stored trauma? Is there a population you see more of?
Sara:
I get a wide variety. Because I offer the free content on YouTube, lots of people find me. There is so much broad content that is available on the channel. Because it is free, and it is available to everyone, it has to be somewhat broad. It can’t be very personalized.
I do get a wide variety. I get a lot of folks who are healing some physical ailment or emotional challenge. I get a lot of anxiety.
If I do get people who are wanting to quit drinking or smoking, it’s usually associated with something deeper. It could be associated with wanting to have a child and having infertility, I should stop drinking because it contributes to the infertility.
Or the drinking could be more related to anxiety, like a coping strategy for anxiety. The real issue is the anxiety. When we can work with the anxiety, then you may not need that coping strategy of drinking alcohol. That’s the approach that I take with some of the clients that come in wanting to quit some substance.
Dr. Eric:
You work with a wide array of people. Do you have a favorite type of client? This person comes in. Obviously, everybody is different, but still. That category of person comes in. I feel really good about being able to help you compared to other categories.
Sara:
I like working with clients who are vested. The clients that really want to do the work, and they are willing to be vulnerable and willing to be brave throughout the process. It’s not one particular issue or situation that I would call my favorite client, but it’s the approach that they take when working on themselves or when trying to help themselves.
Dr. Eric:
You know that my audience consists of those with thyroid conditions. A lot of people with autoimmune conditions. How can hypnotherapy benefit these people?
I talk all the time about blocking out time for stress management, mind/body medicine, incorporate things like meditation, yoga. Some of these people have anxiety, and hypnotherapy can help with that.
Sometimes, anxiety is because of hyperthyroidism. We need to address the hyperthyroidism and lower the thyroid hormones. Also, a lot of these people have stored trauma. Obviously, a lot of people in general have stored trauma. I guess that’s one way that maybe it can help a lot of people who have these chronic health conditions.
Sara:
Absolutely. I think the approach has a lot of layers to the benefits. When I work with clients individually, they all receive a personalized recording. It’s very specific to their needs, their desires, the beliefs that they want to be embodying, the feelings and the qualities. The hope would be that there would be a consistent practice of that recording. It would support, like you said, the stress management. Taking time for yourself to be still, to be quiet, to calm your nervous system. All of these things are happening with the use of the personalized recording. There is that benefit.
I also think that with autoimmune, what I see a lot is, I don’t want this to come off as me blaming or saying it’s someone’s fault. There tends to be lack of self-care at times, which is sometimes around feeling worthy of the time it takes to care for yourself.
I have also experienced thyroid issues, and I have been diagnosed with Hashimoto’s. I am familiar with that. I have an experience of prioritizing work over my self-care and other people’s needs over my self-care. I know that it’s a common tendency.
What I’m getting at is that when you take the time to work through this practice on a daily basis, it’s showing yourself that you are worthy of taking care of yourself. There is this layer of developing- It’s not developing because I believe worth is inherent. We are all humans; we are all worthy. It’s remembering the worth by taking care of yourself and taking the time and prioritizing yourself.
Additionally, we can look at the innate wisdom of the body. It may sound silly in this logical, alert state we are in now, but to close your eyes, be in a calm, relaxed state, and even just ask, what does my thyroid want me to know? You approach it from a very biological way. The physiology of the thyroid. That is important and valuable. You couldn’t manage thyroid without that.
I think the innate wisdom or the messages of the body can also support and bring another layer of healing into the equation that wouldn’t come from the medical world. It’s not a replacement in any way. It’s a support, and it’s another way to be informed.
Dr. Eric:
I agree. I also agree with what you said about prioritizing yourself. That is a question I ask on the questionnaire. A lot of people actually choose that they take care of others before themselves. They don’t prioritize their own health. You really need to do that if you’re going to get better. I’m glad you mentioned that. I think that’s important.
Sara:
Absolutely.
Dr. Eric:
You said you made a personalized recording for everyone. Obviously, you have all the YouTube videos. When someone works one-on-one with you, it’s different because they get that personalized recording rather than just the general videos, which can be helpful. Could they work one-on-one with you remotely, or is it better to work with you in person?
Sara:
Right now, I am only working with clients remotely. There are pros and cons. One of the biggest pros is that safety is so important, and the feeling of safety is important to allow this process to unfold in an effective way. When you can be in your own home, or you can be in a safe place, and I can be on the other side of the screen, I think there is more value in that. It can be very valuable; I wouldn’t say “more value.” It can be very valuable to have that feeling of safety to allow you to go deeper perhaps and understand or uncover more.
Whereas if you had to come into my space, and you have never been there before. Maybe there are noises you don’t recognize or the chair’s not comfortable or whatever it is. It can make things a little bit more challenging for you. Then you have your own space. You can feel safe and really go a little deeper into what’s below the surface.
Dr. Eric:
By working remotely, you can also help people not just all over the country, but all over the world, which I’m sure you do. That’s a great feeling.
Sara:
It’s always fascinating to sit in my home in Maryland and meet with someone in Spain or England or wherever they are. It’s pretty interesting.
Dr. Eric:
Same here. I do telemedicine calls, and it’s always nice. Sometimes, I’ll work with people who are local, but a lot of people from different parts of the country and the world. It’s pretty neat.
Session-wise, this probably also varies depending on the person. Is there a minimum number of sessions people should expect to go through when working with you? Or is it just let’s see how the first session goes and take it from there?
Sara:
Everyone is different. I do have a lot of clients who end up working with me one time. The initial package that I have is a two-hour session, so we talk a lot about past history. We talk a lot about triggers or things that are reactivating old feelings or wounds. I like to get a lot of background information around relationships and family upbringing and dynamics. Within that two-hour session, there is a process that we go through together. It’s a client-centered conversational style of hypnosis. That is all looking at the past, looking at what happened that caused this pattern of behavior or this anxiety or the feeling that you’re experiencing, the issue at hand.
Then there is a healing process that we would go through depending on the individual, what their needs are. Might be some amount of letting go of old beliefs. It may be some amount of self-forgiveness. It could be working with the inner child. Lots of different strategies and approaches for that depending on the individual.
After that, the personalized recording is really looking at moving forward. It’s very forward-looking. It focuses on the beliefs that you do want to have and the feelings and emotions that you want to embody, the qualities that you want to live by. That is meant to be used every day, so you start to have some consistency and repetition of these new beliefs. You’re having to nurture them to fully adopt those beliefs and feelings.
There is a follow-up interaction that we have with some coaching that is a bit of either closure on the topic or that might be a catalyst for the next step, which might look like more hypnotherapy or more coaching. The coaching, I will incorporate some process-oriented techniques. Just depends on the individual.
Lots and lots of people come and work with me for the one package, and they find, not freedom, but a sense of lightness from the issues at hand and the shift they feel happy and content with being enough.
Dr. Eric:
To confirm, the first appointment is two hours. After that appointment, you put together the recording. That is something they will listen to every day. Most people go through a follow-up call with you. After that, it might depend on the person. Some people might be good to go. Some people might need additional support.
Just out of curiosity, is the recording five minutes? 30 minutes? On average.
Sara:
It depends. People always ask me what time of day should I listen? What is the best length of time for a practice? The answer is what is going to be effective for you and what you’re able to consistently commit to. If you came to me and said, “I want a personalized recording,” and I made it 30 minutes because that’s what I wanted. You only set aside 15 minutes a day. You will look at it and say, “I don’t have time for that today,” and keep putting it off. It’s dependent on what each individual can commit to and be consistent with.
I’m sure you give some type of dietary advice or exercise advice when you’re working with patients with thyroid issues. One size doesn’t fit all for those situations. If you were to give a strict vegan diet to everyone, there will be some amount of people who just can’t live like that, or it doesn’t work for them. You have to work with what’s best for that person and what they can commit to.
Dr. Eric:
Is there anybody who wouldn’t be a good fit for hypnotherapy, other than those people who don’t want to make change in their life? Anybody else who wouldn’t really be a good fit?
Sara:
That’s a good question. There is probably lots of mixed opinions about this in the psychology and counseling world. In my experience, anyone who has a tendency to dissociate, that can be very challenging and problematic.
Someone who has a really significant traumatic past, that might be out of my scope of practice. I might pass it along or refer to a psychologist or someone who has more experience with that. Everyone in some capacity has had some thing that we might call “trauma” these days. It’s a very popular phrase, meaning a lot of different things.
My approach is very compassionate. It’s very much intending to meet the person where they are and take a pace that they’re ready for. If you try to heal too fast, or if you try to do anything too fast, or too much, that is essentially another form of trauma. It can reactivate old wounds and old patterns, and that is the last thing we want to do. Healing can be slow. It can be nonlinear. It generally is nonlinear. I tend to take a very slow, compassionate approach, where it’s very client-centered. I want to meet you where you are and move at a pace that is just right for that person.
Dr. Eric:
If someone goes through that initial consultation because you obviously can learn a lot from the person in two hours, and you just feel like, I’m sure, even in advanced cases, you can still offer some value, but if you feel like it’s maybe better for them to work with someone else, I’m sure you would refer them out somewhere.
Sara:
Yes. During this time, my language is always trying to be safe and giving permission to slow down or take breaks. The client is always in the driver’s seat. They are in control of the pace and depth and the direction that they go. If something doesn’t feel comfortable, or something feels unsafe, we are going to stop and work with whatever is available.
In my other profession, in my other side of my career, I work with physical bodies. We are doing movement. The invitation is always to work in a pain-free range of motion. Sometimes, that’s teeny-tiny. Sometimes, it’s much bigger, and there is no pain. If you work through pain, it can cause more pain or more injury. The same is true with the mind.
Dr. Eric:
Makes sense. I will ask you this question. A little bit personal. You’re a yoga instructor, meditation instructor, hypnotherapist. How much time do you personally spend weekly or daily on stress management? Maybe not as much because of your background, and you don’t feel like you need to. I’m just curious if that’s the case. Maybe you only spend a small amount of your time, or maybe because you focus on that, you spend more than the average person.
Sara:
It fluctuates. A fluid amount of time, I would say. Sometimes, if there is more stress in my life, I might need to pull back from work a little bit, or spend more time on my self-care and stress management. Over the years, I guess all of the practice that has been done is building capacity for me. It’s building the ability to recognize when I am in a state of stress or feeling overwhelmed or I have taken on too many things, which is definitely a habit of mine (to say yes to too many things).
Dr. Eric:
Same here.
Sara:
Most podcast hosts who are doing this as a side gig have that tendency. It’s part of your career, not a side gig.
The practice of building awareness of my own nervous system responses and my own stress responses are really important. Years ago, I don’t think I would have recognized that I was feeling stressed or going in the direction of being stressed before it was too much. I think I can see that happening sooner, and I can take steps to manage that.
To answer your question, I don’t have a specific amount of time. I like to do a lot of movement. I like to make the things that I really enjoy practices of mindfulness. I spend a lot of time in the garden, or I have a lot of plants. Obviously, I have a lot. It’s a very calming practice to take care of them and be with that experience. Some of that is my self-care.
Dr. Eric:
Makes a lot of sense. It really varies, depending. If you’re under more stress, it would make sense that you do more from a stress management perspective. It sounds like you’re always doing things and taking care of plants, also very calming, I can imagine. I can’t say I take care of plants on a regular basis.
Sara:
What do you do for stress management? What’s your go-to?
Dr. Eric:
Good question. You’re probably familiar with Heart Math?
Sara:
Yep.
Dr. Eric:
I do deep breathing, and I do sauna. I use the Inner Balance from Heart Math. Can’t say I do yoga. Haven’t really tried it. I tried Pilates actually. I did it years ago. It’s mainly deep breathing, meditation, and Heart Math. I have used apps in the past, like Headspace. I can’t say I do that these days.
Most of my patients don’t use Heart Math. They might do meditation or yoga. Some might do tai chi. Depends on the person. A lot of people just do things like incorporating prayer and walking and other things that are very calming, which is great. I try to do that, too. I get out in nature. Probably need to do more than that.
Sara:
Just being able to recognize what the needs are in that capacity. Sometimes, the self-care is more calming than trying to bring the nervous system into the calm state. Other times, some people will get stuck in that calm state. It’s more of a freeze response. They may need something more high intensity in terms of the movement. It might need to be more vigorous, like kickboxing or jumping on a trampoline or lots of different needs. Being able to recognize what that is is part of the self-care process.
Dr. Eric:
Before we talk about your book, is there anything else that people should know before working with a hypnotherapist?
Sara:
Make sure you feel comfortable with the person. You have some amount of trust, even if you haven’t worked with them specifically before. If there is some way to build rapport, build trust, that would be important to go into the experience feeling safe. Ask as many questions as you need to make sure you can feel safe. Trust that person has the capacity to hold space for you and what you’re going through.
Dr. Eric:
Wonderful. Sara, definitely want you to take a couple of minutes to talk about your book and what people can expect when reading it.
Sara:
The title really is the premise of the book. You’re not broken. The underlying message is one of compassion and acceptance. Not to say that whatever you’re going through will always be. I will just give up. It’s more this is the reality. Let go of the judgment of the reality. With that, the release of the judgment, the release of the feeling broken, is where the healing can take place.
It’s not to say that you have to feel broken or have to have some judgment of your experience in order to take action to do something. You can do that from a place of acceptance and compassion. The healing will be more effective that way.
Dr. Eric:
Is Amazon the best place to get that? Your website?
Sara:
Amazon is great. Any bookstore. You can go to Barnes & Noble. A lot of independent bookstores carry them. Sometimes, they charge a little more because they have higher overhead. Anywhere you buy books, you can usually order it.
Dr. Eric:
What are some ways people can find you? You have a YouTube channel and the podcast that I was a guest on recently.
Sara:
The YouTube channel is a really good starting place. It will give you an opportunity to get to know me, even though we are not meeting face to face. As a practitioner or listener of the videos that I offer, you can start to see my style and energy. It’s really important to build trust with the person you’re working with. This can be a stepping stone to that.
Whether or not you ever work with me, that doesn’t necessarily matter. Starting to build that relationship with me and with yourself is a good place to start. It’s all free. There is 500-some videos to choose from.
Dr. Eric:
All right. Sounds great. Can they also follow you on social media?
Sara:
Most of the content is on YouTube. I’m on Instagram and Facebook, but they’re not the most engaging places where I spend time. TheMindfulMovement.com also has a lot of free resources. There are a couple free courses that are available on that website. Lots of articles that can be useful. Various topics and so forth. There is a lot of information. When did we start? 2016, I think. Years of information to sift through. You will find something that you might resonate with.
Dr. Eric:
Check out Sara’s book. Visit the YouTube channel. Also, TheMindfulMovement.com.
Thank you so much for this conversation, Sara. This was amazing.
Sara:
Thank you. And thank you for taking the time to be on our podcast as well.
Dr. Eric:
That was a lot of fun. Thanks again. Have a wonderful day.